Professionally accomplished, yes. But that's not actually what I notice first.

What I notice is whether someone is genuinely curious. Whether they can hold a conversation that goes somewhere unexpected. Whether they're present enough to catch what's happening between the words, not just in them.

The men I spend time with have usually built something significant without needing it acknowledged. They know what they want. They're tired of experiences that require effort to feel real, chemistry that has to be manufactured, presence that has to be performed.

If that's you, keep reading. If you're still weighing options, this probably isn't the right fit and that's fine too.

Based in Los Angeles. I visit San Francisco and New York regularly and travel internationally for the right engagements.

For incalls I arrange the room. A four or five star hotel, chosen well, somewhere worth arriving to. The hotel cost is yours and confirmed in advance. You show up. Everything else is already arranged.

I'm equally happy coming to you. If you're already somewhere good, tell me where and I'll be there.

For first dates I don't meet at private residences. A hotel room, yours or mine, is the right starting point. Everything after that is a conversation.

A deliberately small calendar. A few dates each week, never more. Which means when we're together, nothing else is competing for my attention. You have all of it.

First time bookings work best with two to three days notice. Extended dates and travel typically need one to two weeks. Regulars come first, always.

Same day is rare. Worth asking anyway.

Cash or Bitcoin, ready within the first fifteen minutes. An envelope is perfectly fine. Tucked inside a book if we're somewhere public. I've always appreciated that detail.

Deposits confirm the date and are non-refundable. Everything else is on the Investment page.

I genuinely enjoy this. There's an energy that only happens when more than two people are in the room and everyone is actually present for it. LGBTQIA+ welcoming, all backgrounds, all dynamics.

For any booking with additional people, the rate is $500 per hour per person. Everyone in the room screens, no exceptions.

I have a small circle of friends I collaborate with for duos. If that interests you, mention it when you write.

This is where I'm at my best.

Something shifts when neither of us is watching the clock. Dinner becomes a longer conversation. The city outside stops being backdrop and starts being part of the night. You stop performing and so do I. What's left is usually something neither of us expected going in.

I pack for every version of the trip. I find the restaurant worth the detour. My Spanish travels with me. So does my curiosity. I don't need an itinerary to have a good time but I'll have ideas if you want them.

If you're considering something longer, this is the page for it.

The first hour you'll notice I'm actually listening. Not politely. Actually.

By the second you'll have said something you didn't plan to say and it won't feel like a mistake. I dress for the occasion, arrive ready, and leave my phone somewhere it can't interrupt us. What unfolds is warm, unhurried, and real in a way that's harder to find than it should be.

Most people find the second time even better. By then we already know each other and that changes everything.

Five or more days notice: reschedule at no cost

Within five days: 50% of the booking fee

Within 24 hours: full fee

If something comes up on my end the same standard applies to me. I think that's only fair.

An email to booking@veronicawilder.com. Tell me a little about yourself, when you have in mind, where you are, and how you'd like to verify. I read everything personally and respond within 24 hours, usually much sooner.

The full screening process is here. It's simpler than it looks and over quickly.

One thing worth knowing: I don't respond to one liners or messages that skip the introduction. Not because I'm difficult. Because the people I want to spend time with don't send those.

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