FAQ

The practical questions.

Everything else is a conversation.

Veronica Wilder in a black dress with a glass of white wine at a set dinner table, garden light
Availability

A deliberately small calendar. A few dates each week, never more. When we're together, nothing else is competing for my attention.

First-time bookings work best with two to three days notice. Extended dates and travel need one to two weeks. Regulars come first, always. Same day is rare. Worth asking anyway.

Setting

Based in Los Angeles. I visit San Francisco and New York regularly and travel internationally for the right engagements.

For incalls I arrange the room, a four or five star hotel chosen well. The hotel cost is yours and confirmed in advance. I'm equally happy coming to you. For first dates I don't meet at private residences.

Investment

Cash or Bitcoin, ready within the first fifteen minutes. An envelope is perfectly fine.

Deposits confirm the date and are non-refundable. Everything else is on the Investment page.

Couples, duos and more

I genuinely enjoy this. LGBTQIA+ welcoming, all backgrounds, all dynamics.

$500 per hour per additional person. Everyone in the room screens, no exceptions. I have a small circle of friends I collaborate with for duos; mention it when you write.

Extended dates and travel

This is where I'm at my best. Something shifts when neither of us is watching the clock.

If you're considering something longer, this is the page for it.

Cancellation

Five or more days notice: reschedule at no cost. Within five days: 50% of the booking fee. Within 24 hours: full fee.

If something comes up on my end the same standard applies to me. I think that's only fair.

Reaching out

An email to booking@veronicawilder.com. Tell me a little about yourself, when you have in mind, where you are, and how you'd like to verify.

I don't respond to one liners or messages that skip the introduction. The full screening process is here.

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