Frequently asked questions
The people I see tend to be interesting. Professionally accomplished, yes but what I actually notice is whether someone is curious, reads a room, and knows how to be present.
If you're still comparison-shopping, this probably isn't the right fit. If you know what you want and you're here because something clicked, keep reading.
Based in Los Angeles. Regular visits to San Francisco and New York.
I arrange the setting: elegant hotel room at a 4/5-star property ($400) or suite ($1000+). Specialized spaces available for those interested ($400 additional).
Travel requests welcome - passport current, schedule flexible.
I don't meet at private residences for first dates.
I limit my schedule to 1-3 dates weekly, maximum.
First-time bookings need 2-3 days notice. Extended dates and travel typically require 1-2 weeks. Regulars get priority.
Same-day rarely works, but ask if you're hoping for an opening.
Cash, CashApp, Venmo, or Bitcoin.
Ready within the first 15 minutes. Envelope works, or tucked discretely in your favorite book or vinyl record if we're in public.
Dates starting after 10 PM include a $300 after-hours fee.
I enjoy the energy couples and groups bring. LGBTQIA+ friendly, all races and ethnicities welcome.
Everyone requires screening. $500/hour additional per person.
I also collaborate with friends for duos if that interests you.
First dates often begin somewhere beautiful - cocktails, dinner, or conversation in a sophisticated setting. I dress for the occasion and arrive ready to enjoy our time together.
I'm warm, easy to talk to, and intuitive about what you want. Fully present, no phone, no clock-watching.
What unfolds is natural, attentive, unhurried. Many people find the second date even better once we know each other.
Longer dates are where things get interesting. Overnights, weekends, travel - there's something about not being on a timer that changes the entire experience.
I'm an enthusiastic packer, adapt easily, and genuinely enjoy exploring new places. Weekend away, week somewhere new, joining you on a trip - whatever you have in mind.
I dress appropriately for whatever we're doing. If you have something specific in mind, let me know -
I'm happy to accommodate.
Include in your message:
Brief introduction
Preferred date and time
Verification method
I respond to thoughtful inquiries within 24 hours.
One-liners and overly explicit messages before we've met don't get responses.
5+ days: Free reschedule
Within 5 days: 50% fee
Within 24 hours: Full booking fee required.(non-refundable. non-transferable.)
Same courtesy applies if something comes up on my end.
What I don't need: a one-liner, an unsolicited description of what you're looking for, reassurance that you're "very clean," or a countdown. What I do need: your name, a date, and one of the verification options above. Simple.