Before we meet
A brief introduction before we do this properly.
I take a small number of new connections each month. It's a simpler process than it probably looks, and it's over quickly. Everything you send is handled carefully and deleted after we meet.
01
Introduce yourself
One email to booking@veronicawilder.com with a little about you, your preferred date and time, and how you'd like to verify.
Not a one-liner. The people I want to spend time with don't send those.
02
Your ID
A photo of your government-issued ID with name and face visible, everything else blocked. Driver's license or passport both work.
This is the one non-negotiable.
03
Plus one of these
Whichever fits your situation. First time and none of them work? Say so. I'm open to alternatives for the right person.
Verification platform
Your P411 or PrivateDelights handle. If you're on either, that's all I need alongside the ID.
Takes thirty seconds.
Professional profile
An active LinkedIn with a current employer and photo. Or a blank email sent from your work address.
It just confirms you are who you say you are.
Provider references
Two providers you've seen in the past year. Their website or ad link and the email they screen from.
That's all I need.
After you reach out
I review every inquiry personally and respond within 24 hours, usually sooner.
If something needs clarification I'll follow up directly. Once screening is complete we confirm the details and that's it. I look forward to it.
